The Power of Fangirl #22

A lot of people around me often look down on k-pop and k-drama lovers. They call us alay just because we like boy band and Korean dramas. That happens for a long time, even until now. One of my male friends often said bad things about K-pop and K-drama especially when we were caught fangirling in our campus area. I often involve in a never-ending argument and found it very tiring. So I decided just to let him talk whatever he want and curse secretly behind him. Lol.

Well, most of those people think that a real man in their definition is a man who acts like a man, in other word, manly man. In our country, it is a typical man who do not wear makeup, do not dance, do not hug other man or even kiss them. Heol. Anyway, many of them are actually manly men. They work out, play sports, and many other. I think when they hug each other it is how they express their bond. Even more they live together and spent hard times before debut together, so it is not strange for them to express it that way. Some fan girl might agree with me, but the problem is people around me dont agree. They keep saying that k-pop idols are gay or whatsoever. Im tired. Lol. 

There are also some people out there, mostly girls who also teased (should I say it mock) us when we were discussing about the boyband at school or even screaming (fangirling mode on) in front the laptop watching the oppa's MV or whatever. They be like, "Korea again... alay." But then after months, years, they became a K-popers and K-drama lovers and I was like, "Look who was talking bad things about Korea." We call it karma. Duileh. Thus if you don't really like something, please do not talk bad about it. Who knows when you really hate K-pop you would watch DOTS and fell in love deeply with the Big Boss. Lol lol.

I just want to say to people out there who call us alay just because we like K-pop and K-dramas, do not ever look down on us. Fan girls, no matter alay we were, are loyal people. We are bold enough to defend our oppa from any bad comments that come from you guys. We always stand by our oppas side even though we know that they dont know we do (?). We are also people who are willing to sacrifice our time, energy and even money just to support our oppa. That's how kind and precious a fan girls heart is. Lol. So, don't you dare look down on us.